With the media being the standard for beauty and sex, many young people have trouble deciding on what or how they should view themselves. Many are not aware of how valuable they are therefore, many tend to rely on the media to define who they are. With scantitly clad women exposing themselves in video most, many young people view this as a guide for how they should live. Many young women don't want to appear out of touch so by talking about how sexually active they are; some beleive they will be more accpted among their peers. This way of thinking also promotes a certain way of dressing which leaves very little to the imagination. This lifestyle promotes risky behaviors that could cause many young people to become sexualy active at a younger age. Having sex is a criteria for many young women today; it shows how feminine they are based on the stadards of today's secular society.